wah. win liao lo. call me stupid!!
well you can say that women climb up to the high post not because of real strength but because of beauty. well, if those man arent perverted and if they didnt allow it to happen, no matter how hard the women try, it would still be to no avail. so add the end of the day, man is the one that allowed it.
are all women over sensitive? man alike too. they get over sensitive and over controlling with their girls. having to report to them just because they are GIRLS. oh. THEIR girl. guys get over sensitive too. the reasons why ppl get depression is not because they are paranoid. women face a higher chance of depression when they face divorce. children face depression because of some traumas they experienced when they are young. so not necessary the fact that they are paranoid. when a person is paranoid, you mean that the person has a pervasive distrust and suspiciousness of others such that their motives are interpreted as malevolent, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
(1) suspects, without sufficient basis, that others are exploiting, harming, or deceiving him or her
(2) is preoccupied with unjustified doubts about the loyalty or trustworthiness of friends or associates
(3) is reluctant to confide in others because of unwarranted fear that the information will be used maliciously against him or her
(4) reads hidden demeaning or threatening meanings into benign remarks or events
(5) persistently bears grudges, i.e., is unforgiving of insults, injuries, or slights
(6) perceives attacks on his or her character or reputation that are not apparent to others and is quick to react angrily or to counterattack
(7) has recurrent suspicions, without justification, regarding fidelity of spouse or sexual partner
the fact that a person is paranoid does not begin with only in relaationship. the person may have got some experiences when they were young or that their parents have been tellin them that they should trust no one in this world. hence, paranoid does not only refers to a single gender. it can happen to anyone.
well, women are generally fatter than man. but it only matters if man only bother about outward appearance.
itsa not true that people who are fatter die earlier.
University of Virginia researcher Glenn Gaesser says the belief that fatter people die earlier is based on faulty studies and misinterpretation, particularly when it comes to analyzing diets. Obese people, he says, may be more at-risk of death because of such things as avoiding exercise and the benefits that result, according to an article published in Medicine and Science in Sports and Exercise.
Of course, this is all very subtle and we have to approach the weight question gingerly. Weight gain, for example, can be unhealthy. If you gain a lot of weight and get diabetes or heart disease, then all bets are off.
Other studies have shown that weight loss can increase the risk of death in some people when compared to those whose weight is stable.
http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/15379.htmlyou quote it wrongly. without man, women can still get pregnant. w/o sperms then will women not get pregnant. well, can you say that without women, humans can still be brought to this world? can you say that man can still have children w/o women? they merely need the womb?
read this. so what if women are more muscular than man?
Women gain some advantages in certain sports from not being as big or muscular as men, as well as from having a higher percentage of body fat. Lighter bones, smaller muscles and higher fat ratios make women more suitable for swimming, where buoyancy is an issue. More body fat means more fuel to burn in endurance pursuits like running, cycling, swimming and hiking. Smaller tendons and ligaments along with less bulky muscles allow for greater potential for flexibility. This is a favorable situation for pursuits like gymnastics and rock climbing where flexibility is at a premium.
http://diet.ivillage.com/workouts/wweight/0,,3k5,00.htmlbeing not as muscular has its advantages too.
Are men becoming weaker than women?
Should we say there is something wrong with the statement that women are weaker than men, or rather, men are stronger than women? For many years, men have ruled the earth. But when it comes to who is the stronger of the two, we shouldn’t underrate women. Who says men don’t cry? Of course they don’t cry in public! At least only a few of them do or rather, they rarely do. Ask me and I will tell you how men cry in secret when annoyed at their places of work, or when insulted by their lovers. As campaigns rage throughout the country, there are some men supporting a particular candidate who will shed tears, come October when the person is not elected after the general elections. Newspapers have shown us all funny stories happening during the campaigns, including candidates who kneel, begging for votes. This is because their families might lose in one way or another since ’their’ candidate could have been the source of income for their family. In normal circumstances, a man heartbroken by some misfortune might shed a bucketful of tears. Such sad times could come as a result of things like losing a soccer match, a loss of a big amount of money in business, or falling out with one’s lover. No one cares about big men chasing a ball around a pitch and kicking themselves more often than they kick the ball. What if your sweetheart goes on holiday? Most men feel threatened and unsafe when women suggest anything to do with ’talking’. Something that goes: ’Honey, we need to talk...’ is not music to their ears. I asked a friend (Rose) whether she has ever felt there’s a communication gap between her and her husband Joe, and she told me, ’So many.’ There are times, for instance, when one has a burning issue that he or she wants to talk over with the partner, but whenever one suggests that they should try to settle the problem, the other tactfully avoids doing so. Rose once told me that most men could be ignorant in this way. That at times they give lame excuses whenever they are reminded to ’talk’. She says one day she woke up her boyfriend at around 4a.m. and talked about the problem they had been facing for a long time. ’We reached a consensus that day,’ she says. She says the best thing her boyfriend did was to avoid telling her that he had a terrible headache. Most men affirm that most of women’s talk is always in men’s disfavour. But why should one fear talking to his woman if there is nothing wrong going on? It’s either that most men are cowards or ’sinners’. If you have a healthy and enjoyable relationship with your woman, then why do you become afraid when she tells you that you need to talk? I think you would surely expect good news like ’Darling, I’m expecting a son?’Let’s get to the bigger myth: Men are courageous while women fall apart like overcooked pumpkins. This is the worst of them all. Look at a man approaching this young woman and watching her legs. His heart is already working overtime, his breath is fast and inside he is just a jelly of flesh. He swallows twice, smacks his lips and begins ’err... could I ...er...I ...er talk to you.’ All men find women alarming in one way or the other, and their fears can be as powerful as their lust. John Assenga, a university student once told me that he would rather get stuck in a lift with a rabid dog than with an angry feminist. Men need to feel they have control over their lives, are liked and can say or do exactly as they please. A look, or a thorough ’away remark’ or a shrug of the shoulder can have effect on the male ego. Most men fear rejection from women. Hassan Kidawa, a student says, ’I won’t make a pass at a woman unless I am very sure she wants me to.’ And even then, I often mess up. Shy men or, rather normal men; rely on various artificial aids to keep their fear at bay. They drink and/or tell a lot of lies all in the name of hooking up women. It is, of course, perfectly true to say that even when a woman has said yes to a man the fear doesn’t go away, instead, the man gets more fears. Human beings have their limitations, and at times when they don’t achieve what they are striving for, they cry. So disappointments are part of our lives, and we shouldn’t lament when we find ourselves in such situations.
By Deogratius Mushi
Guardian
http://www.uchaguzitanzania.com/new/articles/1279/1/Are-men-becoming-weaker-than-women%3Fthats the end of my debate
-toddler-
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heres a post by KIDDO to rebut the stupid TODDLER!
who says females are stronger?!
number one: If you say women being in a high post in the business world is stronger, but how did they get into the high post? Alright, some are use real strength but i believe others are because they have a horny superior man! Taking care of the family, males can do it too! I've seen many examples of males doing a good job in that too. In this reign, there is no comparison between male and female as this depends on character more. But speaking of majority, ladies is more no doubt.
number two: Its not males are insensitive but the ladies are OVERLY sensitive. It takes only very little things that will make the ladies become paranoid. Being over sensitive which can be related to overly paranoid, chances of getting depression is higher meaning they are easier to fall!
number three: Females are generally fatter than males. Whoever don't agree with this, this is scientifically proven. More fats means more disease meaning easier to die!
number four: Speaking about pregnant, without males, there would be no need for you all to imagine about being pregnant. Alright, females have to suffer for 9 months no doubt but thats part of life! If you want to compare about who suffer the most, there would be no ending as males also have to suffer the toughness in the working society and there is no room for males to show any sign of weakness, be it physically weakness, emotionally weakness or hurt.
number five: Lets all talk about muscles since we are comparing which is stronger. Males are generally and obviously stronger than females and most of the manual work have to be done by males. We are the muscles!!
number six: Next, lets talk about courage! Most girls freak out at the sight of bugs or whatever thing which they can refer as disgusting. Though some males do so, but lets talk about the majority!
number seven: Ladies have to depend protection on males. Whenever they stay out late at night, male friends are usually needed to be around to protect but males do not need females protection although the reason for them to need protection is because males are the cause that females need protection.=X
KIDDO™
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Topic for this week.
Are females or males stronger. be it in areas of studies, work, strength etc etc.
-firstly, i feel that there are always two sides to a coin.
but anyway, my stand is on the lady side.
females are stronger!!
WHY?
number one : They can do the cooking. They can be a housewife. Take care of the whole house and members and still be well and alive. they can do that for years without complaining. whereas, man just have to do it for one day and they will GIVE UP. man used to dorminate the business world. say that the wives must always be walking behind the husband. today, the women are the one at higher positions too. so in short, man can only be shown to public and handle outer affairs, but women can handle BOTH the house affairs and the work.
number two : when it comes to sensitivity, man has cant do nothing but shut up. =S
seriously. when something happens, who spot it first? the women. they are better listeners and a better choice for a listening ear to pour out ur heartachers. they will sympatise w you.
number three : when it comes to nurturing a child, women have GREATER PATIENCE. hardly see a man in a childcare centre? thats why. man arent up to the job.
LASTLY and the MOST IMPORTANT OF IT ALL.
there is something only women can do. and thats getting PREGNANT! w/o women, there wont be children, without children, we wont EXIST. so the fact that you exist now meant that women is the one sacrificing her body to carry you in her womb for nine months. men, if one day you can get pregnant then come debate and say men is greater.
-GRACE-
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Hey people, my apologies that this blog have not been updated and changed for such a long time because toddler is currently MIA therefore no topics but to keep this blog kicking and alive, heres a topic for EVERYONE
Do you want to lead a life where you can foresee what would happen or you prefer a life that is full of surprises?Theres a lot of good and bad in this two choices. Make yours and state your reason!
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Hey people. thanks for all your comments on the previous topic.
and here is the topic of theh week!!!
Do you agree with the statement opposite attracts?
For example, is it true that an extrovert will be attracted an introvert, as they compliment one another. Or a jokey person get attracted to a serious person, or a lady who grows up more to 'manly' or rough side is more likely to fall in love with a guy who is more on the gentle side etc.
-perhaps you can think about one of your past relationship and start wondering what attracted you to him/her. perhaps he/she has a special gift, talent, character which you wished you had?
Start writing in your thoughts today and get the debate going!
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Okay, heres the topic for this first week.
Do you mind adoption?
for the guys- wont you want to have your own kids to 'carry on the family line?'
for the ladies- pregnancy is not an east thing. would you chose the easier way out by adopting?
btw, adoption arent cheap =S
-think about how you are going to break the truth to the kid and tell him/her that he/she has been adopted-with the risk of him/her wanting to find back their real parents.
Please comment your most truthful comment and your blog might be featured here if you are the best commenter ! This is just a place for people to voice out their opinion ABOUT THE TOPIC of the week. Enjoy!
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